Here are some strategies for fostering confidence in preschoolers:
1. Give them a few (limited) options.

Offering preschoolers a few (limited) options can have several benefits, contributing to their development and fostering a sense of independence.

Choosing between a few options allows children to practice decision-making skills. It helps them understand the concept of making choices and the consequences of their decisions.

Providing choices within limits can reduce power struggles. When preschoolers have some control, they may be more willing to cooperate with caregivers, leading to smoother interactions.

2. Letting them perform easy tasks

Research suggests that assigning tasks to children in their early years can positively impact their academic performance, social skills, and self-confidence by the time they reach third grade.
Starting with simple chores like putting away toys and clearing the table may initially face resistance and require more effort, but the long-term benefits far outweigh the challenges.

3. Resist from taking control.

Have you ever noticed how preschool educators patiently let children figure out how to complete challenging activities independently? You can adopt this approach and give your kids additional time to learn how to tie their shoelaces or open a snack package. With more opportunities to work independently, their level of self-sufficiency will improve.

4. Highlight their accomplishments

When you ask your child for assistance with a task, it’s important that you praise their efforts to help boost their self-esteem. When complimenting children, it’s best to focus on their work rather than their attributes. For instance, instead of saying, “You’re such a talented baker!” say, “You’re getting so good at making muffins because you keep practicing”. Studies have shown that the latter approach can be more effective in building children’s confidence, while the former can backfire and make them feel guilty when they fail.

5. Create a Safe and Supportive Environment

Parents should create a secure physical environment to ensure that toddlers can explore their surroundings safely and confidently. This will enable them to try new activities and develop a sense of mastery.
It is essential to support toddlers in expressing their needs and feelings by encouraging open communication. This will help them feel understood and valued, ultimately promoting a sense of self-worth.